Hot blogs: Quick picks

Hot blogs quick picks

I’ve only been blogging for a few months and before that I didn’t read any blogs – what was I doing with my life? (I was reading a shit tonne of erotica *cough*). Anyhoo… I have now discovered some absolute gems and I thought I’d share a selection of them with you. If, like me, you don’t have much time to look on the infinite black hole that is the internet, these links might be useful to you.

About Malin James:

Malin is the best kind of blogger, she writes beautifully, both erotic fiction and essays and she makes me think. I’ll be honest with you, I have to be on my A game when I read her blog, her intelligence shines through in her writing and if I’ve just come off a three hour stint of building lego with my three year old it takes me a while to shift gears! But I always make the time to read her posts. Classy, intelligent and entertaining (plus she rocks a corset).

About Exhibit A:

I don’t even know where to start with this guy. I’ve just read a couple of his erotic stories and I feel like I’m going to spontaneously combust. Hot doesn’t even cover it. I love the way he writes, it can be raw, dark and edgy or tender and sexy; whichever way it is, it hits a lot of my buttons. Reading his stuff makes me want to be twenty something again but this time with Skype, broadband and knowing what I do about my kinks now.

His post On My Sexuality (part 2) describes an interesting visit he had to Toronto. I spent a lot of time in Toronto in my twenties but not one of those trips included a bisexual threesome – unlike Exhibit A – I feel unreasonably disappointed in myself. I urge you to go and check his blog out, it’s insightful, sexy and funny.

About Girl On The Net:

I’m not going to say too much about GotN because she has more followers than the population of a small country so you’ll already know about her. What I will say is, she’s one of my favourite bloggers and she makes me laugh out loud –  a lot. Sexy, funny, uninhibited, raunchy and informative. Her book is great too.

About Go Deeper Daily:

Go Deeper Press’ daily blog with book excerpts, free erotic short stories, interesting blog topics and discussions. I just read the opening excerpt to Jacob Louder’s new book ‘M’ on there and holy shit it’s good. I 1-clicked it – couldn’t resist. There’s always something good to read on there, new authors to discover and it’s owned by two talented authors – Lana Fox and Angela Tavares (who writes as Jacob Louder).

Obviously these are just the tip of the iceberg, if you have any you’d like to share please comment. Hope you find something that interests you. Thanks for reading. Rx

 

Taking A Chance

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2014 was a pretty good year. My little family and I managed to survive it fairly well intact. Happy kids, a fantastic partner who has worked hard and achieved amazing things, and me, in a mainly happy (I will admit I had a few moments where I wanted to run away, far away) supporting role. Someone’s got to keep feeding the kids and making sure they don’t leave the house naked, right?!

December 15th 2014 was a BIG turning point for me.

Up to that point I was a voracious reader who had recently started to write a bit. I had a few stories on the go, lots of ideas and a long term plan.

I joined Twitter and started to follow some interesting people. I had lots of questions like what’s a meme / vine? What does NSFW mean? Why do Twitter people think you can write what you need to say in so few words? Honestly!

“Oh my god, come and look at this!” Became a fairly regular demand to my bloke as I explored Tumblr, different Twitter pages and blogs in the evening when the kids were in bed sound asleep. Basically, I was just being bombarded with lots and lots of dirty, naughty inspiration. It was awesome!

Anyway, one of the twitter people I follow is Kayla Lords. Her blog is called ‘A Sexual Being’. She writes about living in a D/s relationship and writes erotica. Her blogs are honest, often funny and touching and easy to relate to whether you live in the BDSM lifestyle or not. She also has a blogging meme called #masturbationmonday. Where people write ‘a steamy hot post about masturbation or so hot, it’ll make people want to masturbate.’ I read a few of these and thought, ‘I reckon I could do this’.

Problem: I didn’t have a blog. So on that cold, wet December day I took a chance and contacted Kayla asking her if there was another way for me to write something for #masturbationmonday. She got straight back to me saying I could do it as a guest post on her blog.

I was a bit shocked to be honest. I was thinking, ‘…but she’s never read anything I’ve written. What if she thinks it’s shit? Oh my god, am I really going to do this?’ You get the idea – especially if you’ve ever written anything and got that anxious, squirmy feeling when you’ve thought about people actually reading it.

Anyway, I put my big girl pants on and wrote something. I was VERY inspired by the vine that she’d used as a prompt the previous week (go have a look it makes me go a bit tingly every time I see it!) and the little story just poured out of me. It’s such an amazing feeling when that happens. I kept it for a few days and checked it a bit obsessively before finally emailing it to Kayla.

So Monday rolled around and ‘Watch Me’ went onto Kayla’s blog with a lovely intro from her. I couldn’t believe how sweet and supportive people in the erotica community could be. They left messages of support, retweeted it, put links to it on their blogs. Over the next few days when Triberr kicked in my phone was going ballistic with retweets and it had 168 shares (and counting) to Twitter from her blog page.

That’s the moment there that changed everything really.

I know that sounds a bit dramatic but it’s true. I’d tentatively reached out and someone who I’d never met and who I’d barely had any contact with, was willing to give me a chance. That was a great feeling. I call Kayla my Fairy Godmother (FG for short). It’s weird to think I’ll probably never meet her, she’s in Florida I think. I’m in Yorkshire, England. But I will always be so grateful to her for being so kind and giving me a chance to let people read a few words I wrote.

Things snowballed pretty quickly after that, I wrote another guest post for #wantonweekend called ‘Private Festivities’ and with a huge amount of help from my partner we got my blog set up and I frantically wrote a few posts to put on it. Meanwhile, I was trying to get sorted for Christmas and remember to buy the kids and family presents. It was an exciting but slightly fraught time.

So in the space of a couple of weeks I went from not having a blog to having one and nobody reading anything I’d written to quite a few people reading it, liking it and helping me spread the word about it.

Who knows where this writing journey will go. Hopefully I’ll publish some books and a few people will read them and have a good time in bed that night! Whatever happens, I won’t forget that buzz of excitement when I realised for the first time that people were reading something I’d written and that some of them were actually enjoying it.

So, take a chance on something. Who knows where it’ll take you.

All the best for 2015!

Rebecca x